Your Happy Life

Hi guys
I noticed an overwhelming amount of people writing, commenting and talking about other people and other people's body's and comparing them or shaming them rather then looking at there own and caring so much about there own.

People who do this often are not happy with there own appearance or there own body, and rather then deal with there own body issues they turn all their built up feelings on their own body and turn them on others and make them feel bad about their bodies and start a whole lot of issues for them.

Rather then deal with their own issues and make them selves feel better and happier and solve their own issue. Which would be a lot better then creating them for others, that way everyone is happy and confident in their own skin

It does matter if your thin, skinny, chubby, large, curvy no matter what body type you are there is always something that is beautiful and unique and should be celebrated for their own beauty as it takes many forms and everyone is beautiful in their own amazing things.

                                                         Stay Beautiful
                                                              Stacey

Hi There My Beauties

I had a thought today just a simple little thought and that then turned into a some great big spider monster thing with many legs to say the least, and my conclusion to this that was that no one is 100% happy with all of there body when you really think about it, I expect that if you go and ask someone or a group of people not one of them will say that they are a 100% happy with their body. They will all have at least one thing they do not like.

Some people decide to spends hundreds and thousands maybe millions on changing those things they do not like with the likes of plastic surgery or things like that to take away the things that they do not like and sometimes come of worse for it, as it can never be guaranteed and go terribly wrong or not look the way you thought it would.

Others choose to hide the parts of themselves they do not like if it covering with something, like clothes, with make-up, or Photoshop. People get very creative in the ways that they try to hide the parts they don't like about themselves. You have to remember though that the things that you don't like about you someone else will and that no one is ever perfect and everyone has a different opinion of beauty otherwise we would all be attracted to the same people right.

Personally I have come to love my scars I have it is my story written on me and it can be a good conversation starter. A lot of people dislike there scars thinking they are ugly or what not, but I think they are something to be proud of they show that I am a survivor and that I am strong, a fighter and I believe that on it's own is enough to make me like my scars plus I have some that look like I had wings and they are now gone, so it is like I'm angel sent from the sky (or so I like to think). I think that is a pretty nice way to think about it.

Hey everyone
How are you Today?
I'm just checking in to see how you all are seeing as the other day I had a bit of a low self-esteem day/moment whatever you like to call it and I thought I would share how I felt with you all (I'm not going to share why or what made me feel like that).

Well the day started off like any other I wasn't overly happy or unhappy just the nice in between feeling like anything could happen it could go either way, Sadly to say it id and I ended up feeling really bad about myself very like someone was watching my every more waiting for me to make a mistake (which I know they probably were not), and spending a fair part of the day beating myself up about it by telling myself such things as I'm not good enough and I do not deserve this etc . One top of all that I am just feeling right down sad and don't know what to do or how to make the feeling go away and sometimes you just got to bare with it and give it time.

I myself hate feeling like this, as I expect most people do and I try to not let it effect me, but it can very easily effect me and my social life as I want to go out and do things less and less and sometimes just want to be alone (which I have learnt is probably not the best thing to do but can't help feeling this way). Then it can start effecting people that are close to you and your friendships.

Luckily for me these feelings most of the time don't last that long, but sometimes can. This one though lasted the rest of the day and got easier as the day/night went by as I wasn't in the same place or situation as it had occurred in.

Sometimes all you need is a good support system and good friends to listen and rally round you (Even if it is to tell you how silly you are being and you have to high an expectation of yourself your only human).

I am so glad I have gotten over this hiccup of low self- esteem, please let me know if you have felt like this or something like this as we are never alone, there are people that feel the way you do.