Your Happy Life

Hi Everybody!
How you all doing? Let me tell you about this little thought I had and thought was a bit thought provoking. I wasn't doing anything very exciting or of any particular meaning when I had this thought come into my head that maybe just maybe people or humans were not suppose to be perfect? I know to some of you this may come as a shock to you ! But stay with me.

If everyone was suppose to be perfect at some point in their life then why are every single human being different in some way, making the whole thing of being perfect an option? Just think about that for a minute. Everyone option of what is perfect will be different in some way even in the slightest way as our options and thought are shaped by our life experience.

If you take two people from completely different backgrounds their ideas and thoughts are going to be completely different because their life experiences have been completely different, even two people who's life experiences have been similar will not be completely the same, yes they may agree on more things but not exactly everything.

So this lead me to think maybe the best thing we all can do is to be our best self  and stop trying to be 'perfect' in other people eyes maybe we were all suppose to be different there is reason for that, because face it if everyone was the same the world would be a boring place indeed.

Please let me know what you think. I would love to know you can leave a comment in the comment box or leave a message somewhere else then feel free to and I will try to answer you back



Stacey

Hi There My Beauties

I had a thought today just a simple little thought and that then turned into a some great big spider monster thing with many legs to say the least, and my conclusion to this that was that no one is 100% happy with all of there body when you really think about it, I expect that if you go and ask someone or a group of people not one of them will say that they are a 100% happy with their body. They will all have at least one thing they do not like.

Some people decide to spends hundreds and thousands maybe millions on changing those things they do not like with the likes of plastic surgery or things like that to take away the things that they do not like and sometimes come of worse for it, as it can never be guaranteed and go terribly wrong or not look the way you thought it would.

Others choose to hide the parts of themselves they do not like if it covering with something, like clothes, with make-up, or Photoshop. People get very creative in the ways that they try to hide the parts they don't like about themselves. You have to remember though that the things that you don't like about you someone else will and that no one is ever perfect and everyone has a different opinion of beauty otherwise we would all be attracted to the same people right.

Personally I have come to love my scars I have it is my story written on me and it can be a good conversation starter. A lot of people dislike there scars thinking they are ugly or what not, but I think they are something to be proud of they show that I am a survivor and that I am strong, a fighter and I believe that on it's own is enough to make me like my scars plus I have some that look like I had wings and they are now gone, so it is like I'm angel sent from the sky (or so I like to think). I think that is a pretty nice way to think about it.