Your Happy Life

Hi All

Here are a few little things I wanted to say hope you don't mind.

• It's Okay to be different to everyone else (because the world would be a boring place if we were all the same)

• It's Okay to be a little bigger if it's healthy (It's your body not anyone else's)

• Its Okay not to like things everyone else seems to like

• It's Okay to be yourself (because you are beautiful and are the best version of you)

• It's Okay to want to be accepted by people (Most people actually want this to you have to find where you belong)

• It's Okay not to want to wear make up all the time (you are beautiful without it and your letting you skin breathe)

• It's Okay to worry about things (It's heathy and everyone does it even if it don't look like it).

• It's Okay to sometimes burst out crying (keeping it bottled up will be worse for you).

I might touch on some of the above more in other posts, so if you would like me to post about one more them just comment or let me know I would be happy to do so.




 

Hi Readers

I was thinking the other day, how everyone is always labelling or looking reasons why someone is different to you and there not as good as you (I am aware not everyone does this but there are people out this judge a book by it's cover).

A big reason, for this I believe is the Media and social media and the way that people are portrayed. Which is not what most people are actually like.! People come in all shapes and sizes which is OK and should be celebrated more and not feel like it wrong to be who you are. Not be made to think that if you don't fit the mould then you are not right you are not accepted and made to dislike your body or worse hate it (which upsets my greatly).




But the media also can make you feel like the things you enjoy, hobbies, interests and lifestyles are not to be like and enjoyed and that we all have to like and enjoy the same things the right things. Which is completely 100% wrong! I myself prefer knowing and having friends that are into different things and have different views.

It doesn't matter how cool you are how hot or good looking you are there is always someone who is better or better looking then you. what matters is how you are the best that you can be never mind what  label that is.




                                                       Best wishes
                                                           Stacey
    

Hi Everybody!
How you all doing? Let me tell you about this little thought I had and thought was a bit thought provoking. I wasn't doing anything very exciting or of any particular meaning when I had this thought come into my head that maybe just maybe people or humans were not suppose to be perfect? I know to some of you this may come as a shock to you ! But stay with me.

If everyone was suppose to be perfect at some point in their life then why are every single human being different in some way, making the whole thing of being perfect an option? Just think about that for a minute. Everyone option of what is perfect will be different in some way even in the slightest way as our options and thought are shaped by our life experience.

If you take two people from completely different backgrounds their ideas and thoughts are going to be completely different because their life experiences have been completely different, even two people who's life experiences have been similar will not be completely the same, yes they may agree on more things but not exactly everything.

So this lead me to think maybe the best thing we all can do is to be our best self  and stop trying to be 'perfect' in other people eyes maybe we were all suppose to be different there is reason for that, because face it if everyone was the same the world would be a boring place indeed.

Please let me know what you think. I would love to know you can leave a comment in the comment box or leave a message somewhere else then feel free to and I will try to answer you back



Stacey